Post by sunflwrs4evr on Sept 5, 2011 21:09:46 GMT -8
i had a great day today.....I am taking ACTION....I said i wanted change...and i am doing it....now...i texted my oldest son and said i wanted to take my grandson out for today....and he was giving me this song and dance about doing him a favor and this and that...and it was all about him...not the babies...but him...
so i detached and told him what i wanted and i would talk to him when he got closer to his house....and then he called again and gave me a song and dance again....And again i detached....no emotions and no codependency...and i said ..i was eating lunch...and i wasnt ready to pick him up yet....and then he calls again and says he is out back...i told him i was getting dressed and i will be over as soon as i was done....i did tell him he was doing awesome job...I thought of myself first this time....and i even thought of how it would of turned out if i did what he wanted me to.....i am so tired of being USED & ABUSED,,,,No more i tell u....i was really focused today...
Also...when my bf called me today..I told him in good way how i felt and how if we are going to be positive and support each other this is what needs to be done...and i asked him if he agreed with me...and he said yes....i felt totalled empowered today.....i hope it lasts....
so i detached and told him what i wanted and i would talk to him when he got closer to his house....and then he called again and gave me a song and dance again....And again i detached....no emotions and no codependency...and i said ..i was eating lunch...and i wasnt ready to pick him up yet....and then he calls again and says he is out back...i told him i was getting dressed and i will be over as soon as i was done....i did tell him he was doing awesome job...I thought of myself first this time....and i even thought of how it would of turned out if i did what he wanted me to.....i am so tired of being USED & ABUSED,,,,No more i tell u....i was really focused today...
Also...when my bf called me today..I told him in good way how i felt and how if we are going to be positive and support each other this is what needs to be done...and i asked him if he agreed with me...and he said yes....i felt totalled empowered today.....i hope it lasts....
