Post by sober on Dec 5, 2011 6:14:09 GMT -8
I'm new here but not new in recovery. I've tried SLAA but it's not really what I needed. I googled and found this forum.
The Baggage Reclaim introduced me to "no contact". I restarted it yesterday after my slip.
I cannot understand myself. I don't know why I got attracted or attached to someone w/ an undesirable personality. Is this an addiction? ( I answered "yes" to 10 only out of 40. loveaddicts.org/40questions.html). I liked her style and some other factors and we became close before but we've grown apart already due to her ambivalent nature and I know I have faults too.
I joined here since it seems to focus on recovery from attachment to a person.
My problem is I'm having a difficult time to move on completely.
So what do you do to stay sober, keep your no contact rule, and move on w/o looking back?
The Baggage Reclaim introduced me to "no contact". I restarted it yesterday after my slip.
I cannot understand myself. I don't know why I got attracted or attached to someone w/ an undesirable personality. Is this an addiction? ( I answered "yes" to 10 only out of 40. loveaddicts.org/40questions.html). I liked her style and some other factors and we became close before but we've grown apart already due to her ambivalent nature and I know I have faults too.
I joined here since it seems to focus on recovery from attachment to a person.
My problem is I'm having a difficult time to move on completely.
So what do you do to stay sober, keep your no contact rule, and move on w/o looking back?