Unavailable Women?

Hi Torchbearer,

For me EU means people that for whatever reason, cannot get close. They are maybe scared of intimacy & create barriers against those that try to get close to them. The ones I get involved with are generally terirified of commitment & will initially appear to want a relationship but the signs soon begin to show with broken promises and parts of their lives being hidden. Unavailable can also, of course mean involved with someone else.

If we develop self esteem and learn to love ourselves we will not then be prepared to get involved with someone who cannot be emotionally / physially present for us.

It's hard work but really rewarding when we no longer need to look outside ourselves for love.

There is a lot of wisdom on this site so keep posting and reading. I have learnt so much.

Gemmrose