Post by LovelyJune on Dec 19, 2008 5:38:58 GMT -8
Imagine you have a daughter (or a son, if you're a man) and you are in charge of her and love her dearly. And one day you learn she has been dating a (mentally, emotionally or physically) abusive guy. He basically treats her like garbage. cheats on her. ignores her. only uses her for sex. You are this girl's mother and you have the power to influence her and possibly change the direction she's heading in. You can also make rules. Not so much about who she dates but about you will allow in your house.
Write a letter to your daughter trying to convince her that this guy is no good for her. Write down what you would say to her to help her get over him. Set rules (i.e. "I am the head of this household and I will not allow certain people to enter, and this guy is no longer permitted). Set conditions. Really talk to her to try and inspire her to change.
Post it here and then re-read it. Obviously you know where I am going with this....the letter you just wrote is for YOU. This can be an inner child thing, or just a letter to your real or imagined child. Have fun with it! I'll post mine soon!
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Write a letter to your daughter trying to convince her that this guy is no good for her. Write down what you would say to her to help her get over him. Set rules (i.e. "I am the head of this household and I will not allow certain people to enter, and this guy is no longer permitted). Set conditions. Really talk to her to try and inspire her to change.
Post it here and then re-read it. Obviously you know where I am going with this....the letter you just wrote is for YOU. This can be an inner child thing, or just a letter to your real or imagined child. Have fun with it! I'll post mine soon!
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