Post by simplyme on Mar 6, 2013 15:33:48 GMT -8
Last time I was on here I was dealing with a break up. I can't remember my username or password so I made a new account. So I thought I finally got over my addiction after my long term relationship ended. It was one of those "Get Away. Please Come Back." relationship due to me of course. He wanted to stay, but I was just never content.
A year fast forward. I thought I was doing well because I was surviving without him. But looking back I haven't gotten any better but possibly just worst. For the whole year I've been serial dating at quite an alarming rate as well as being promiscuous (which is really odd because I don't even really care for sex). They are probably people I would have most likely never dated had I been sober enough to realize it. I would meet them all online (while being sober of course) and then as soon as I meet them over diner I would get so drunk and have word vomit talking non stop about my ex-boyfriend. Then of course the date would end up with sex (no protection. I know..it's really bad).
Some call me back. Some don't. Even if they do I don't want to have anything to do with them. If they don't call me back..I start doubting myself and thinking there must be something wrong with me.
I felt high off of every date I went on. It's really out of character for me because I've always been in long term relationships.
Lately I've been going on dates gushing to all of the guys how much I want love but how it usually consumes me when I have it. I'm sure I come off sounding somewhat crazy, but they possibly stick around to try to get me into bed. Or at least I think so. I'm not even sure anymore. Most guys who meet me are actually really into me because of my outside appearance and how I seem to be the whole package, but I guess after a drunken date or two they see how crazy I really am which pushes them away I assume.
I started seeing another guy long distance (which I thought would be good because I've been trying to get my life together) but now that lonely part of me keeps on seeking other guys to briefly have companionship with.
Can some one please tell me am I getting worst? Is this normal? Is this a phase?
I know I should be working on myself and I've been trying at real hard...and there's a lot I should do for myself. But the truth is...when I look forward I don't see myself as anything. All I can see myself is having a family with someone who loves me.
A year fast forward. I thought I was doing well because I was surviving without him. But looking back I haven't gotten any better but possibly just worst. For the whole year I've been serial dating at quite an alarming rate as well as being promiscuous (which is really odd because I don't even really care for sex). They are probably people I would have most likely never dated had I been sober enough to realize it. I would meet them all online (while being sober of course) and then as soon as I meet them over diner I would get so drunk and have word vomit talking non stop about my ex-boyfriend. Then of course the date would end up with sex (no protection. I know..it's really bad).
Some call me back. Some don't. Even if they do I don't want to have anything to do with them. If they don't call me back..I start doubting myself and thinking there must be something wrong with me.
I felt high off of every date I went on. It's really out of character for me because I've always been in long term relationships.
Lately I've been going on dates gushing to all of the guys how much I want love but how it usually consumes me when I have it. I'm sure I come off sounding somewhat crazy, but they possibly stick around to try to get me into bed. Or at least I think so. I'm not even sure anymore. Most guys who meet me are actually really into me because of my outside appearance and how I seem to be the whole package, but I guess after a drunken date or two they see how crazy I really am which pushes them away I assume.
I started seeing another guy long distance (which I thought would be good because I've been trying to get my life together) but now that lonely part of me keeps on seeking other guys to briefly have companionship with.
Can some one please tell me am I getting worst? Is this normal? Is this a phase?
I know I should be working on myself and I've been trying at real hard...and there's a lot I should do for myself. But the truth is...when I look forward I don't see myself as anything. All I can see myself is having a family with someone who loves me.