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Post by looking4peace on Aug 6, 2014 15:10:49 GMT -8
I am a love addict who has serially cheated in one form or another on my husband for several years. I have been in recovery for just over eight months. Really working on this. I wrote a few days ago about my husband shutting me out emotionally, verbally, etc for nearly the past two weeks (we were moving forward and doing pretty well until all of a sudden - literally, like a switch flipped). He is still here physically. I am here. I am committed to healing and to the marriage. But living with this pain and upheaval has me looking to numb out. I am exercising, praying, gourging on Pema Chodrin, and so on.....this is getting harder with each passing day, though....
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Post by havefaith on Aug 6, 2014 19:17:55 GMT -8
Is he committed to the marriage? As with any relationship, it takes two. Otherwise, it will, as you observe, get "harder with each passing day" and become an exercise in futility.
HaveFaith
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Post by looking4peace on Aug 7, 2014 13:56:46 GMT -8
I am not sure.
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