Post by SandyLove on Sept 9, 2014 16:44:30 GMT -8
I am feeling good that I have accomplished 5 days of NC with PoA. On the subway home, I was already thinking, by the time I go to sleep tonight, I will wake up and it will be day 6. Meetings really help. This board really helps.
In the meeting I went to, a woman spoke who had lots of recovery, 100s or even more 100s of days. One of the things she said... "I am just so bored now of even hearing about, talking about early family history, the whole thing just bores me at this point." She had moved beyond that entirely and into the present moment, and the future, that is something to look forward to.
From Susan . . . I am glad you took what she said with a open heart, but I consider what she said inappropriate at a meeting. She can tell her friends, but in front of the group she is actually shaming people who are still working through family of origin issues. Just my opinion.
In the meeting I went to, a woman spoke who had lots of recovery, 100s or even more 100s of days. One of the things she said... "I am just so bored now of even hearing about, talking about early family history, the whole thing just bores me at this point." She had moved beyond that entirely and into the present moment, and the future, that is something to look forward to.
From Susan . . . I am glad you took what she said with a open heart, but I consider what she said inappropriate at a meeting. She can tell her friends, but in front of the group she is actually shaming people who are still working through family of origin issues. Just my opinion.