Primary Caretaker

Clients always tell me that they had perfect parents and yet they have all the symptoms of love addiction.

Yes, shame, neglect, abuse and abandonment are the root of the problem. But most of all it is the mood of the primary caretaker. Children are very sensitive to a parents' anxiety, depression and lack of eye contact.

Once I saw a video of a woman holding a rag doll. At least I thought it was a rag doll until they gave the woman electric shock therapy. The woman came alive and so the rag doll which was actually her baby.

Here is a video that explains what children go through . . .