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Post by leahb on Jan 26, 2016 14:07:02 GMT -8
Hi Vivi,
Hang in there! It does get better. What's been coming up for you? What feelings/emotions? What coping resources have you used to help? Is chanting doing anything to help you feel better?
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Post by Susan Peabody on Jan 31, 2016 15:36:13 GMT -8
For the last week I had regular thoughts of self harm.
I think it is I feel so little emotions at the moment and also because I still don't know when and where I am going soon, so it is a way of having a bit of control over this situation...
Vivi 
Do you mean self-harm as is associated to Borderline Personality Disorder, or do you mean I don't want to live. If the latter, what is making life so unbearable. We have a lot of information about feeling suicidal.
loveaddictionforum.proboards.com/board/89/suicidal |
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Post by Susan Peabody on Feb 2, 2016 11:33:20 GMT -8
Dear Susan
I mean self harm as a way to feel something, anything and as a way to show that, somewhere within me I am hurting. I think it is also a way to regain control over what I cannot control at the moment.
I love the prayer you attached to your post. It is something I ask to the Universe quite often.
xx Self-harm is a symptom of the Boderline Personality Disorder. Has any professional told my about this? I used to cut my wrist when a boyfriend broke up with me. I needed something broken so I could fix it. The wounds made me feel alive. I could nurse myself. Chemicals were released that abated my emotional pain. Nail me to the cross but don't hurt my feelings. This is all discussed in the book, I Hate You Don't Leave me. Abandonment and rejection trigger my desire to self-harm.
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Post by denverdignity on Feb 2, 2016 11:36:46 GMT -8
Kind of like cutting? I know people do that to feel something sometimes. My thoughts are with you, I think this will get better once you get this move over with, the anxiety before hand I think it causing lots of stress..try to take an hour at a time and do self soothing things that make you feel comforted and love yourself!
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Post by rosahorton on Aug 22, 2017 23:16:16 GMT -8
Self harm, though comes because of personality disorder, depression, eating disorders, anxiety or post traumatic distress disorder. It is not a mental illness, it can be because of certain situation of life where people fail to handle that situation. To overcome this, one should talk to a doctor or a trusted friend or family member is the first step towards understanding your behavior and finding relief. One can also take guidance from voyance direct consultant when you are in a situation where you cannot take life decision, they can help you to take future decision. Never get panic, life always gives hard stages. One should not quit that stages, take it as a challenge and complete it. |
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Post by Susan Peabody on Aug 23, 2017 16:17:02 GMT -8
Self harm, though comes because of personality disorder, depression, eating disorders, anxiety or post traumatic distress disorder. It is not a mental illness, it can be because of certain situation of life where people fail to handle that situation. To overcome this, one should talk to a doctor or a trusted friend or family member is the first step towards understanding your behavior and finding relief. One can also take guidance from voyance direct consultant when you are in a situation where you cannot take life decision, they can help you to take future decision. Never get panic, life always gives hard stages. One should not quit that stages, take it as a challenge and complete it. I know a lot about self-harm. I started cutting when I was 14. I used to carve the initials of my PoA on my hand. I did this out of self-hate and because of my depression. I read that cutting is a way to nurse ourselves when we feel nobody else cares. Today I let God nurse me back to health and make me feel better. There is no way I am going to harm myself. I am too important and needed. I know this because God tells me so and I get a lot of fan mail. LOL |
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