Post by CodepNomore on Mar 24, 2016 10:27:21 GMT -8
This abusive man is very short and has depended on his family and wife for support. A heavy smoker and alcoholic. (My exact opposite.) Before coming to his distant city and seeing me, he called me horrible names such as :
1. "sleeper" and "sex maniac" (Truth: I have been celibate for many years and much purer than them. I never initiated hot chats or have used explicit language usually.)
2. "Undesirable, old lesbian" (Truth: All of them, including the authorities in his city when they saw me said there is no way that I'm a lesbian! That I'm too sexy and even better-looking than his wife. They both have less and look less than me. That's a fact! On my way home even a young gay man who offered me a free massage said I am sexy and have the body of a Hollywood star.)
3. "Home wrecker" (Truth: They are already damaged and have been estranged for many years before I even came to the picture. And many have known her as a single mom ever since.)
4. "Animal", "Demon Worker", "No forgiveness from God", "No happiness". Just because he judged me as a homosexual. (Truth : I am forgiven, saved, redeemed, blessed, made a new creation by God and my identity is in Christ.)
Well, today I fought back and knocked him out! So happy about it and proud of me! I might share a bit more details later on.
Post by CodepNomore on Mar 26, 2016 1:41:53 GMT -8
I got tired of being a "victim" here. So for a change, I have been taking the offensive side lately and I felt good about it. I called him "half man" with no balls. And since he called me a sex maniac and a who**, I said his wife was extra hot with us and all that. Making him more insecure and hurting his ego. I don't care anymore if they fight because of this. (They did not care about me or how I felt anyway.) Whatever happens between them, it's their problem already. But I'm not quitting yet and will keep on winning this battle with my God on my side to give me justice.
PS: He's been trying to be nice and play innocent with me these days. (Especially, days after seeing me and realized who he has been talking to.) But I was not born yesterday. So no way he can fool me. It makes me stronger than ever.
Post by CodepNomore on Mar 28, 2016 2:31:21 GMT -8
My spiritual retreat got a bit interrupted as this Con Artist knows I'm a spiritual person. (He just messaged me and used an unidentified caller I.D.) So he is now using God Whom he just blasphemed to stop me from pursuing justice. He is not apologizing for his abuses and he owes me a lot of money. I can buy his rented house, too if I want from the owner. I have strong connections here and there. Nevertheless, I'm relying on God to direct my steps. His will be done.
Post by moonlitvein on Apr 2, 2016 20:02:33 GMT -8
He sounds like a horrible & irritating man. I hope that your contact with him will be minimal soon even though from a practical vantage point you feel the opposite. God works in mysterious ways. I hope he is out of your life soon.
"Fully functioning people are not interested in doing things better than everyone else; they look inward for their life goals....Look inward rather than at how you measure up to the other guy" - Pulling Your Own Strings by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer.
Post by CodepNomore on May 12, 2016 8:49:50 GMT -8
Thanks moonlitvein. You are right. He is who he is. I must admit though that I made a mistake in stooping down to his level and I am not totally innocent in some aspects. So this experience has been teaching me a lot. I hope and pray to get the most out of it for the best. I am leaving him behind me and whatever he owes me I let my Higher Power handle it for me.