Does anyone have any views, ideas, tips or illumination on jealousy of an ex partners new object of affection. Jealousy didn't affect me in the love relationship while I was being told that I was the adored one. Now one and half months after the relationship end and the evidence there is a new glamourous younger model on the scene is driving me into imaging them having sex and an amazing life together forever ( though my ex is 48, married twice engaged 5 times and a serial womaniser who was in SLAA but left ( still does NA and is twenty years clean). I've gotten some great advice on here. But just wanted to ask specifically about the jealousy. It's happened in 2 previous love relationships. I start to want to become whoever the woman they've gone off with. Last time it was a yogic artist. This time a glamour model, gym bunny with huge breasts and a career . I intensely want to be the girl because I only love my ex. No one else is attractive. This happened for a whole year or more with my last ex and before meeting this one. Who I think is the only one for me. Anyone else have this pattern? In my relationships I've been happy wit the men going to strip clubs . As long as I know I'm loved and they find me attractive.