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Post by shastafame411 on Jul 25, 2017 15:09:03 GMT -8
How do I overcome feeling indifferent in relationships. Every time I try to have a relationship with a guy it doesn't feel right. I have enmeshed mother who uses me as lifeline so I am love avoidant. How do I overcome this
I feel part of it is is the fact I would rather be with girl than guy. I can't relate to men. However her time a woman shows interest in me it feels offensive. I also struggle in finding a girl
My family is not taking it well at all. That want to know who made gay and say I'm confused. They are pressuring me into finding a guy.
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Post by Susan Peabody on Jul 25, 2017 16:12:38 GMT -8
How do I overcome feeling indifferent in relationships. Every time I try to have a relationship with a guy it doesn't feel right. I have enmeshed mother who uses me as lifeline so I am love avoidant. How do I overcome this I feel part of it is is the fact I would rather be with girl than guy. I can't relate to men. However her time a woman shows interest in me it feels offensive. I also struggle in finding a girl My family is not taking it well at all. That want to know who made gay and say I'm confused. They are pressuring me into finding a guy. When I got in recovery I was burned out so I got indifferent. This is common. Most love addicts are also closet avoidants or what I call ambivalents. Take a break and let it pass. As for girls and guys. I love both but it was complicated for me. My soul mate was Sandra. I felt romantic but not interested in sex. People tried to tell me I was gay, or bi-sexual, avoiding men or just lonely. I don't know I just loved her with all my heart because she was the nicest person I have ever known. Do some soul searching and just be who you want to be. Learn through trial and error who you want to be. You don't really have to choose between genders. I loved Sandra, but now I am with Frank. So what if you are confused. I stay confused. Believe me, when you meet the right person you will know. |
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Post by loveelleng on Jul 25, 2017 16:49:29 GMT -8
How do I overcome feeling indifferent in relationships. Every time I try to have a relationship with a guy it doesn't feel right. I have enmeshed mother who uses me as lifeline so I am love avoidant. How do I overcome this I feel part of it is is the fact I would rather be with girl than guy. I can't relate to men. However her time a woman shows interest in me it feels offensive. I also struggle in finding a girl My family is not taking it well at all. That want to know who made gay and say I'm confused. They are pressuring me into finding a guy. When I got in recovery I was burned out so I got indifferent. This is common. Most love addicts are also closet avoidants or what I call ambivalents. Take a break and let it pass. As for girls and guys. I love both but it was complicated for me. My soul mate was Sandra. I felt romantic but not interested in sex. People tried to tell me I was gay, or bi-sexual, avoiding men or just lonely. I don't know I just loved her with all my heart because she was the nicest person I have ever known. Do some soul searching and just be who you want to be. Learn through trial and error who you want to be. You don't really have to choose between genders. I loved Sandra, but now I am with Frank. So what if you are confused. I stay confused. Believe me, when you meet the right person you will know. My problem is that I keep attract toxics and liars into my life ..how to attract good people ?and stop with toxic toxics ? I feel desperate because I worked very very very hard on it .but still all the people in my life are toxic and abusers .... |
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