My friends are calling me martyr, naive, idiot, douchebag and more because I can’t let go of the girl who made me realize I am worthy of being loved too. She cheated on me many times but I just can’t let her go. I know she’s been loving me this whole time. I was just away, that’s why she cheated. Am I wrong for still keeping her? I always believe that if you love someone, you shouldn’t let that someone go. I can’t afford seeing her with somebody else. I loved, love and will be loving her for sure. Is that wrong?
Post by Living Wise (Codepnomore) on Aug 13, 2018 15:28:43 GMT -8
Sorry to know that you were treated badly by someone you love. Unfortunately, what she’s doing to you is the exact opposite of your love to her. Cheating is a deal breaker. Cheating many times is a whole life breaker. Because it is telling you that you and your life are worthless. To say that it is wrong to keep her and/or loving her is an understatement. It is living in misery, pain, and sorrow. It is not the purpose of your life. You’re created for a meaningful life. So I hope you will focus on healing and recovery and live your life as a freeman again.
(Note: This is codepnomore. I lost both my email and password so I made this new account.)
Welcome to the boards. Sounds like you are in the right place! So glad you found us. I can’t tell you how many partners I’ve been obsessed with but I can assure you that the obsession fades the more I work on myself. What you describe is addiction!