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Post by bfdad40 on Aug 14, 2018 2:10:07 GMT -8
Three months of being together and yet I still don’t know what is my stand in my girlfriend’s life. She won’t like it if I give her a phone call. She gets mad whenever I hold her hands in public. She forbids me to be sweet to her. She doesn’t want her friends and family to know about us. She will be cold toward me whenever I won’t give what she asks. I don’t know if I am her boyfriend or just a sugar daddy. I’m too young for the latter anyway, but I guess I am. I realized it’s time for me to find someone who is capable of loving me for who I am. I have been naive for three months now and it’s enough.
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Post by maxheadcase on Aug 14, 2018 3:20:11 GMT -8
You seem to have a good understanding of your situation. It's only been three months, sever ties now before you get more emotionally attached, as this will only make it tougher to move on. She sounds emotionally unavailable to you and only seems interested in your money. The relationship seems to be an illusion. Listen to your gut. Good luck
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Post by bfdad40 on Aug 15, 2018 2:59:45 GMT -8
You seem to have a good understanding of your situation. It's only been three months, sever ties now before you get more emotionally attached, as this will only make it tougher to move on. She sounds emotionally unavailable to you and only seems interested in your money. The relationship seems to be an illusion. Listen to your gut. Good luck Hi @ maxheadcase ! First off, thank you for your advice; I appreciate it! Second, I already made up my mind. I'm breaking up with her as soon as possible because if not, I think I might go crazy. Really, thank you very much! |
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Post by matrix on Aug 15, 2018 8:11:57 GMT -8
Thank you for sharing this, it sounds like you know what to do. We teach people how to treat us so this is not all about her, this is also about how you have allowed yourself to be treated from lack of boundaries, not valuing yourself enough, etc. It's good that you can see it. It has taken me a long time to find my voice in relationships, knowing my worth. I hope that you can find your worth by not accepting this kind of treatment in the future. You are worth being with someone who is proud to hold your hand, who will introduce you to their family and friends. You are worth mutual interest and progression and intimacy. Hang in there
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