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Post by tiredgf26 on Sept 12, 2018 2:12:59 GMT -8
I had a long-time boyfriend. We were almost six years and was planning to get married. We already started building our house. But everything turned into ashes and I never regretted that it happened. I always dream to walk in the aisle while he is waiting for me at the altar. However, during our almost six years ride, I realized that it was only I who tried so hard to let our relationship work. I was the one who did efforts and sacrifices. I forgave him a thousand times for hanging out in nightclubs with different women from USA. I always caught him still exchanging messages with his ex-girlfriend. He lies to me countless times. I had become so blinded by what I thought was love. The moment I woke up from that nightmare, I knew I have done enough and I should stop. I am so glad I did. I know I have done something great for myself and I am proud of myself.
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Post by paisley on Sept 20, 2018 10:01:36 GMT -8
Such good news! Congrats on going forward without that unavailable person weighing you down
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Post by maxheadcase on Nov 15, 2018 20:40:09 GMT -8
Awesome! Sadly I am still hanging onto that unavailable person who is weighing me down. Though it seems the end is getting nearer.
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Post by Susan Peabody on Nov 16, 2018 12:22:17 GMT -8
Awesome! Sadly I am still hanging onto that unavailable person who is weighing me down. Though it seems the end is getting nearer. Search for "progress not perfection" although the original quote is "spiritual progress not perfection." Hint . . . hint. Eventually the burden will be heavy to bear and you will let it go. You soul mate is down the road a bit and to get there faster you have to let go. 
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