Post by RoseNadler on Apr 28, 2019 5:22:09 GMT -8
www.cracked.com/blog/6-reasons-fear-abandonment-will-ruin-your-life
This article about fear of abandonment really hit home for me. It describes how a trauma or loss can lead to separation anxiety.
I have no idea exactly what happened in my life to make me insecurely attached. Well, I’ve racked up many incidents where somebody dumped me, abandoned me or let me down - but I think those incidents happened because I’ve been trying to relive the original incident and make it turn out differently this time. It’s the orignal incident that I can’t remember.