How to Handle Limited Contact Without Losing Dignity

Like I said I take proper good quality vitamins and stuff, do not have poor dietary habits.
LA is enough.

No worries.

I'm not offended at all.

I'm familiar with medical care structure.
Of course, universal care or whatever Bernie calls it, would be ideal but this subject is beyond the scope of current discussion: smiling face.

It's pretty much what is being discussed on fb.

I really didn't feel like arguing with the jerk: wrote back to this "happy" couple that I was not interested and per C, my landlord, no alleged rent payment came in in December, January and February.

Those rants" when will you understand that I in love and married..." seem to be directed rather at his current victim than me.
The letter that I sent was "this is an attempt to collect debt" and nothing else.
His screams about love&marriage come across as redundant and absolutely unnecessary. His audience does not include me.

It has been nine months or so since R removed himself from my life.
I feel serene. The only anxiety that comes and goes is money related and productivity.
If I feel like I'm not productive enough, I feel deeply dissatisfied.

Other than that, no worries.
It's great not to have seductive withholder anymore in my life.
A year ago I was so anxious with driving him and from work, cooking etc.
All those worries are in the past.
I don't think I will ever let myself be so accommodating to a man.

I have sent a super polite and very formal past due rent request to her email( that is the only working email address of him that I know of).
I got hit back with a filthy reply full of " you're lying wh**...I never wanted you. I left you. You broke in our house bringing another letter full of lies, when were not home. I wanted to help your kid. I'm bringing up charges...."

Thank you, I agree with you. Unfortunately, it is not feasible financially.

It is going only one more communication going out in April when rent is due.

I have blocked all numbers as well as emails from her, so i will not see any more of that rude stuff.

Hello,

Fast forward first, I'm well and so much over my xPoA.
Took my kid on two vacations so far this year. Planning to fly to Rome over Thanksgiving break, restrictions allowed.
A quick question:
I tend to still attract people, men and women, not sexually of course, but in general that connect to me not in the most healthy way.
I can tell almost right away.
I mean clients. I don't really like it. At all. Now I am thinking that it is the same issue that manifests itself differently but profoundly it's the same: addiction.
To me now.
Am I right or just attributing features that seem to be fitting into the old old pattern?

Thank you.

I agree there is a problem with boundaries in general. But I also I think that I might still attract addicts. Whether they realize that or not. Both genders, work related. Some people get latched to me. Now I am sure it is me who attracts them, too.

Same here. I sensed it before but really never fully identified that.

Now I tend to think that I am really cautious but not really. Aftermath is relentless. I have no intentions to get to people too close too fast. But even when I know this client for like seven or eight months which is not too fast, she invited myself and y kid to her brand new place. And suddenly attacked me verbally in front of my kid. She brought things up which I said randomly some time ago and it did not carry any significance. At least that what I was thinking back then. Why?
I mind my own business, work on building up my clientele and really enjoy time spent with my kid. We drove to Miami in June and back, stayed there for like over a week, then in July we went to Lake Geneva, WI for another week. It was serene.
I really do not want any aggravation. Why am I still attracting unhealthy ones?
There must be something I am doing.

I have been doing extremely well until this war started. I'm a ukrainian.
Now I'm really angry off. It has been almost two years since he ran off
He could have said at least that he is sorry that my country is being bombed by crazy putin and a few cities just destroyed and burned to the ground.

I'm in US. For almost 30 years

I am so distraught by the war that you would think I lived there. I can't believe what a monstrous thing it is. I don't understand why we can't send in troops to help. The one bright spot is the president and the courage and stamina of the people who call Ukraine home. It is inspiring. I pray for them everyday.