Until now, I was not familiar with the word boundary. One of the reasons is that I'm not a native speaker. However, I think there is a section that comes to my mind after reading this post. I have previously experienced that I fell in love with any type of woman after I was with her for a while. Also, recently, when I had a meeting at work, I was worried that the woman in front of me was attractive, so I couldn't look at her straight or concentrate on the meeting. Perhaps she also saw my nervous attitude. I have a hard time keeping a distance from women. Often, I listen to their wishes and put up with my wishes. I can't see their face disappointed or saddened. I was relieved when I saw their smiles. I don't feel free with a woman. I read the definition of the boundaries here. I think there is a phenomenon that I can't draw a border with a woman. I feel guilty about my secret and distrust that women have secrets. I repeat jealousy, distrust, aspirations, and atrocious follow-up. Perhaps it will be easier to notice the boundaries defined here.
I am not an expert on boundaries here. I came to realize that if one goes out of your way, out of what is good for one,against one's personal interests and one's own well being, that where we are crossing our boundaries.
I feel like I saw a very good post here by lovely june on this subject. I am going to look for it and share.
I feel that my own boundaries were non existent for a while.
Lack of boundaries I think that's what gets us, LA in trouble to begin with.