Chrissy
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Post by Chrissy on Jan 28, 2009 3:52:10 GMT -8
Because relationship addicts need to be needed, we can actually sabotage growth in others by taking too much responsiblility for bringing it about.
Remember: Another's journey is in God's hands,just as yours is. [/center]
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Post by viva on Jan 28, 2009 4:01:13 GMT -8
Thanks for that insight, Chrissy. I am hanging on, promoting actually, a toxic relationship because it does make me feel needed, like you say. I will not only harm myself if I keep this going, I'll be taking him down with me -- and that is unconscionable on my part.
Thank you for helping me to see that more clearly.
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