Post by chrissy on Feb 26, 2009 9:52:26 GMT -8
The sex act, when it is highly gratifying physically, has the power to create deeply felt bonds between two people. For wowen who love too much, especially the intensity of our struggle with a man may contribute to the intensity of our sexual experience with him and thus our bond to him. And the converse is also true. When we are involved with a man who is not much of a challenge the sexual dimension may also lack the fire and passion. Because we are not in an almost constant state of excitement over him, and because sex isn't used to prove something, we may find an easier more relaxed relationship to be somewhat tame. Compared to the tempestuous styles of relating that we've known, this tamer kind of experience only seems to verify for us that tensions, struggles, heartache and drama truly do equal "real" love.
