Post by chrissy on Apr 16, 2009 16:40:08 GMT -8
If you truly want to recover from loving too much, you must take responsibility for the fact that you chose this partner and realize that there are lessons for you to learn in this relationship.
The first lesson is how to let go of the determination to change another person.
The driving, compelling need to do something to affect some change in another person is one of the most destructive elements in relationship addiction.
Can you honestly say that every attempt to pressure your partner to change has been loving rather than coercive and manipulative?
The first lesson is how to let go of the determination to change another person.
The driving, compelling need to do something to affect some change in another person is one of the most destructive elements in relationship addiction.
Can you honestly say that every attempt to pressure your partner to change has been loving rather than coercive and manipulative?