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Post by brooklynberry on May 9, 2009 18:59:58 GMT -8
I still pine for men years after we have parted ways...years after contact has ended. No matter how inappropriate they were for me, or how badly they treated me. It's amazing. Wow. How do we break this?
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Post by triggered on May 9, 2009 22:28:41 GMT -8
By not seeking validation from things outside of ourselves. By not putting our self-worth in fallible human beings, and recognizing that everything is in a state of impermanence.
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maria
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Post by maria on May 10, 2009 7:09:25 GMT -8
ooo...thanks for that triggered
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Post by nickie on May 11, 2009 17:28:10 GMT -8
by replacing blind faith in false solutions with inhabiting our own lives. by 'being' instead of 'doing' which creates authenticity and presence to ourselves. by taking back out own individual hp's through no longer projecting them onto poa. through surrender and acceptance replacing abandonment and rejection. by using boundaries. by learning emotional balance.
by learning how to stop wanting what i cannot have and instead cocreating something real with my hp. by awakening to my own gentleness and changing my attitudes toward emotion.
oh yea, and by having some steak and eggs along with all that while i'm at it. :=)
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carrie
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Post by carrie on May 17, 2009 2:56:17 GMT -8
Brooklynberry,
I totally know what you are talking about.
Why would I pine for someone that treated me like stuff? Someone who my friends told me was a scumbag and a user?
I can't understand it.
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