Post by Susan Peabody on Jan 3, 2010 1:19:38 GMT -8
The OLA is your basic, and most common type of love addict. If you want to write about this start your own thread, this will be locked.
OLAs cannot let go of someone they love, even if their partner is:
* Unavailable emotionally or sexually
* Afraid to commit
* Unable to communicate
* Unloving
* Distant
* Abusive
* Controlling and dictatorial
* Ego-centric
* Selfish
* Addicted to something outside the relationship (hobbies, drugs, alcohol, sex, someone else, gambling, shopping etc.)
And, obviously, OLAs obsess (uncontrolled thoughts/fantasies) but, unlike the torchbearer, for shorter periods of time.
Obsessed Love Addicts
OLAs cannot let go of someone they love, even if their partner is:
* Unavailable emotionally or sexually
* Afraid to commit
* Unable to communicate
* Unloving
* Distant
* Abusive
* Controlling and dictatorial
* Ego-centric
* Selfish
* Addicted to something outside the relationship (hobbies, drugs, alcohol, sex, someone else, gambling, shopping etc.)
And, obviously, OLAs obsess (uncontrolled thoughts/fantasies) but, unlike the torchbearer, for shorter periods of time.