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Post by Susan Peabody on Jan 3, 2010 1:19:38 GMT -8
Obsessed Love Addicts
OLAs cannot let go of someone they love, even if their partner is: * Unavailable emotionally or sexually * Afraid to commit * Unable to communicate * Unloving * Distant * Abusive * Controlling and dictatorial * Ego-centric * Selfish * Addicted to something outside the relationship (hobbies, drugs, alcohol, sex, someone else, gambling, shopping etc.) And, obviously, OLAs obsess (uncontrolled thoughts/fantasies) but, unlike the torchbearer, for shorter periods of time.
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