Flash
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Post by Flash on Jun 8, 2008 19:15:57 GMT -8
Hi Dragonfly,
Definitely check in with your therapist...that's why they are there. I know I have experienced many of the same feelings you describe. My POA got married to someone else last weekend. It hurt so much I just wanted to feel nothing. But it is getting better.
Most people on this board can totally relate to what you are describing. I go talk with a psychiatrist and sometimes also a clinical social worker. They both help in their own ways.
I hope you feel better soon.
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Post by nicoftime on Jun 9, 2008 23:59:27 GMT -8
Please call for proffesional help. Your life has value don,t give up.
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Post by dragonfly on Jun 10, 2008 2:23:33 GMT -8
I deleted my post because I was feeling better and felt silly about what i wrote. i was deep in a depressed haze over the weekend, but am slowly pulling out of it. I did talk to my therapist over the phone and that helped a bit. Still feeling afraid to leave my house. Also, feel like i have become a burden to my friends because there always seems to be drama going on with my recovery.
Thanks for writing though.. It was nice to read.
Dragonfly
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Post by jonny on Jun 10, 2008 7:44:09 GMT -8
Hi Dragonfly
Its easy to feel very negative it will be one of your weekest times just hold on in there and it will get better ...you will look back when you are feeling stronger and understand it more !!!
just hold on in there xx its painfle but you have to take the pain to come out stronger its hard to believe now but you will later we have all gone through it !!!
Always remember when you are at one of your lowest times it can only get BETTER and it will !!
jonny xxx
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Post by Sexlessw on Jun 10, 2008 12:57:42 GMT -8
DragonFly:
Hey, when you're feeling down & out - even in the house (ha ha ha), come on over - there's going to be somebody here to hold your hand. This IS cyberspace remember - it's not all boogie men. We care.
It's difficult for those IRL (in real life) to understand this.
You did the right thing by asking for help & calling your therapist.
How are you feeling today?
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Post by dragonfly on Jun 10, 2008 13:14:13 GMT -8
Thanks, your posts are always so much fun to read.
I'm feeling much better. I figure I deserve some depressed days in bed, I'm getting over a seven year relationship. I can't expect to feel fabulous again over night! Working on staying busy and remembering how great my life is, and it really is. I have a great job, great friends, enough money and a dead weight gone for good, how could it get better:)
Dragonfly
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Post by Sexlessw on Jun 11, 2008 6:08:02 GMT -8
DragonFly:
Darn straight girl! I had to laugh for I agree with you:
"I figure I deserve some depressed days in bed, I'm getting over a seven year relationship. I can't expect to feel fabulous again over night!"
Even laying in bed, the dead weight can't pull you down. And with a great job, think of all the things you can be spending your hard-earned $$$ on - YOURSELF and your FAMILY.
Maybe even take a trip next year - there is only one way to go - that's UP.
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