Post by looking4direction on Mar 2, 2012 14:40:56 GMT -8
I am getting better at this.
An online friend (no longer a friend now) was emailng with me back and forth on a website that we both go to and he did not say he was married or did online cybers*x, UNTIL WE AGREED to EMAIL.
I am so glad I did not give him my private email.
I deleted my account there.
Let him go ahead and look for me.
He will not get the satisfaction of chatting with me, after I had already told him, "I don't do cybers*x and I do not chat with married men unless I am also acquainted with the wife and I chat with both of them. And that means no cyber with couples, either. I chat with, get together with, couples, but I do not do triangles or 3 ways or secret affairs!"
He apparently did not care.
So I am out of there!
Years ago, I would have gotten into him (continued the liason) and gotten hurt and the wife could have gotten hurt and very angry there could have been legal stuff involved.
I decided to post this after reading about boundary issues, esp. online friend boundary issues.
I am angry with him, but not dwelling on it. Because I did not get too close to him. thank goodness!
who do you trust?
Trust takes time and I am glad I did not trust too deep with this one!
Carol
An online friend (no longer a friend now) was emailng with me back and forth on a website that we both go to and he did not say he was married or did online cybers*x, UNTIL WE AGREED to EMAIL.
I am so glad I did not give him my private email.
I deleted my account there.
Let him go ahead and look for me.
He will not get the satisfaction of chatting with me, after I had already told him, "I don't do cybers*x and I do not chat with married men unless I am also acquainted with the wife and I chat with both of them. And that means no cyber with couples, either. I chat with, get together with, couples, but I do not do triangles or 3 ways or secret affairs!"
He apparently did not care.
So I am out of there!
Years ago, I would have gotten into him (continued the liason) and gotten hurt and the wife could have gotten hurt and very angry there could have been legal stuff involved.
I decided to post this after reading about boundary issues, esp. online friend boundary issues.
I am angry with him, but not dwelling on it. Because I did not get too close to him. thank goodness!
who do you trust?
Trust takes time and I am glad I did not trust too deep with this one!
Carol
