Post by sillypoppet on Apr 10, 2011 10:22:00 GMT -8
I am SO angry today.... just think I broke-up with my bf on his voicemail.
Long story short, he tried to break-up with me on Friday night. He was being hysterical, and got even worse when I tried to let him go. Saturday he convinced me to stay with him, and agreed we needed to get to know each other better. He is leaving for Iraq, and I don't want to commit for 8 months while he's gone. I need to know him better. Fine, we both agreed on this.
So, I had asked him earlier this week to go to church with me. It's important to me because it tells me where his heart is. After almost breaking-up yesterday, he decided to go out with his f@#$ing friends. Okay, fine. But, then he texts me, changes our plans for today and says "I'm too busy, but maybe dinner." B.S. It's my only day off, and his day off as well. He slept through all of Saturday because he is LAZY. Then he can't get back to me when I responded and agreed, but let's just do church and lunch. NO RESPONSE until 12:33 am!... with a "Yeah, I know it's important to you." End of discussion. I texted him this morning asking if he's going, and then called him an hour later to see. Basically, I said that maybe we should skip dinner and just talk about coordinating a time to return our stuff to each other. I AM SO DISAPPOINTED AND HURT.
I feel like such an IDIOT for letting him corner me into making a decision to stay with him. I felt so bad that he had been "hurt." He is just a manipulator and has absolutely NO clue how to communicate. I told him EXACTLY how I was feeling, WHY it was important to go to church, and he still was an IDIOT. I HATE MEN. I HATE DATING.
Long story short, he tried to break-up with me on Friday night. He was being hysterical, and got even worse when I tried to let him go. Saturday he convinced me to stay with him, and agreed we needed to get to know each other better. He is leaving for Iraq, and I don't want to commit for 8 months while he's gone. I need to know him better. Fine, we both agreed on this.
So, I had asked him earlier this week to go to church with me. It's important to me because it tells me where his heart is. After almost breaking-up yesterday, he decided to go out with his f@#$ing friends. Okay, fine. But, then he texts me, changes our plans for today and says "I'm too busy, but maybe dinner." B.S. It's my only day off, and his day off as well. He slept through all of Saturday because he is LAZY. Then he can't get back to me when I responded and agreed, but let's just do church and lunch. NO RESPONSE until 12:33 am!... with a "Yeah, I know it's important to you." End of discussion. I texted him this morning asking if he's going, and then called him an hour later to see. Basically, I said that maybe we should skip dinner and just talk about coordinating a time to return our stuff to each other. I AM SO DISAPPOINTED AND HURT.
I feel like such an IDIOT for letting him corner me into making a decision to stay with him. I felt so bad that he had been "hurt." He is just a manipulator and has absolutely NO clue how to communicate. I told him EXACTLY how I was feeling, WHY it was important to go to church, and he still was an IDIOT. I HATE MEN. I HATE DATING.