Chrissy
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Post by Chrissy on Oct 19, 2008 15:49:41 GMT -8
Sometimes, even long after we're parted from someone, we are driven to find out about him--what he's doing, whom ( if anyone) he's seeing etc.
It is a spiritual law that what we are meant to know will be revealed to us without any effort on our part. We are wise to trust the soul's timing as well as its methods regarding such disclosures.
Anything else amounts to forcing issues, which is part of our disease. [/center]
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Post by Sobrietythirst on Oct 19, 2008 20:07:33 GMT -8
I really needed to hear this. I use the excuse of not talking to him to check their status and see about their lives...the unknown is this swallowing hole.
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Post by Chrissy on Oct 20, 2008 2:59:13 GMT -8
I have done the same thing..ugh
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Post by bluebird on Oct 20, 2008 8:22:48 GMT -8
I do this and I'm glad to know it's part of my disease. That means maybe it won't be part of my recovery. It helps to read these. Forcing things- I could write a page next to every name in my book. thanks for continuing to post these chrissy.
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Post by Judy on Oct 20, 2008 16:40:10 GMT -8
I'd like to say I do the same thing, except I live in DENIAL, so I don't WANT to know what's going on in the POA's life. That way I can stay in my fantasy!!!
How's THAT for deluded?
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