Chrissy
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Post by Chrissy on Oct 22, 2008 16:32:19 GMT -8
For the woman who loves too much, her primary disease is her addiction to the pain and familiarity of an unrewarding relationship.
True, this generates from lifelong patterns reaching back into childhood, but she must first of all deal with her patterns in the present in order for her recovery to begin. No matter how sick or cruel or helpless her partner is, she must understand that her every attempt to change him is a manifestation of her disease, and that she must stop these behaviors before other areas of her life improve. Her only legitimate work is with herself. [/center]
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