Chrissy
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Post by Chrissy on Oct 26, 2008 8:14:38 GMT -8
If you find yourself participating in a no win cycle of accusation, rebuttal, blame, and counterbalance, stop.
Let go of trying to make it turn out the way you want it to be being nice, being angry, or being helpless. Stop needing to win.
Stop even needing to fight or to make him give you a good reason or excuse for his behavior or neglect. Stop needing him to be sufficiently sorry. [/center]
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