Chrissy
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Post by Chrissy on Dec 8, 2008 12:31:11 GMT -8
Detaching, which is vital to your recovery, requires that you disentangle your ego from his feelings and especially from his actions and their results.
It requires that you allow him to deal with the consequences of his behavior, that you don't save him from any of his pain. You may continue to care about him, but you don't take care of him. You allow him to find his own way, just as you are working to find yours. [/center]
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