sia
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Post by sia on Dec 20, 2020 2:40:54 GMT -8
My boundaries-just established, hard to follow: -Not looking at his profile on fb -Not responding to his e-mails -Not looking at him at work
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Post by Linda S. on Dec 21, 2020 2:55:25 GMT -8
Well done! I think it is important to make the commitment to and for yourself and hopefully putting it out here as an intention will help you stick to it. Remember to play the story through to the end if you find yourself tempted to go back on this....and progress, not perfection. Be kind to yourself and remember there is a whole community here to help you through this.
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sia
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Post by sia on Apr 15, 2021 7:51:01 GMT -8
A very warm "thank you", with such a delay... It's been 3 years since I started to obsess about that man... He is a colleague at work,trying to reach me in a more personal way for decades... Always indirect, always gentle since I'm married. I never had an affair with him, but I cannot get him out of my head. I'm trying hard to respect my boundaries and to find my peace of mind. It's a continuous struggle, 2 steps forward, two steps back... Sometimes I feel that 3 years and 3 months of unstoppable obsession, it's a lot... Only when I turn to God, I get relief...
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