Post by Susan Peabody on May 5, 2021 8:51:12 GMT -8
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Definition of Recovery in LAA
1. In LAA, recovery is a state in which you are able to love yourself as much as you love others.
2. You are guided by a power greater than yourself who knows what is best for you.
3. You are growing and changing.
4. Love is a want not a need.
5. Romantic love enhances your life but does not determine your self-worth.
6. Most of the time you are serene and think clearly when it comes to relationships.
7. Your behavior is sane and marked by emotional sobriety.
8. You do not "love" too much. You do not "do" too much for others.
9. You do not chase after unavailable people.
10. You do not put up with ambivalent people like narcissists or seductive withholders.
11. You have researched healthy relationships so you know what your goals are.
12. You stay close to people who are also in recovery in order to avoid relapse.
Love addiction is "cunning, baffling, and powerful." It lies in wait for us when we let our guard down. So never take recovery for granted or become complacent. Above all else, put your wellbeing ahead of your romantic attachments. Remember, romantic love is not enough to sustain you. It is like a flower without roots. You need love and compatibility with someone who can reciprocate. Finally, you put an end to all triangles. Monogamy and recovery are synonymous.
Copyright © 2004, Love Addicts Anonymous
Definition of Recovery in LAA
1. In LAA, recovery is a state in which you are able to love yourself as much as you love others.
2. You are guided by a power greater than yourself who knows what is best for you.
3. You are growing and changing.
4. Love is a want not a need.
5. Romantic love enhances your life but does not determine your self-worth.
6. Most of the time you are serene and think clearly when it comes to relationships.
7. Your behavior is sane and marked by emotional sobriety.
8. You do not "love" too much. You do not "do" too much for others.
9. You do not chase after unavailable people.
10. You do not put up with ambivalent people like narcissists or seductive withholders.
11. You have researched healthy relationships so you know what your goals are.
12. You stay close to people who are also in recovery in order to avoid relapse.
Love addiction is "cunning, baffling, and powerful." It lies in wait for us when we let our guard down. So never take recovery for granted or become complacent. Above all else, put your wellbeing ahead of your romantic attachments. Remember, romantic love is not enough to sustain you. It is like a flower without roots. You need love and compatibility with someone who can reciprocate. Finally, you put an end to all triangles. Monogamy and recovery are synonymous.
Copyright © 2004, Love Addicts Anonymous
