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Post by anaddict on Sept 25, 2021 1:10:21 GMT -8
I have been clean and sober from my poa for almost 4 months now. I am NC. He is my best gf brother. He is only interested in sex with me. I am doing very good and feeling good and working hard on my issues. But since yesterday I feel him thinkin about me. It scares me because in the past that feeling gave me so much pressure and I ended up contacting him after a long time of nc And than everything started all over again and I am scared now that it will happen again. I cannot deal with another slip. I NEED to stay NC. I need support please
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Post by RoseNadler on Sept 26, 2021 12:18:43 GMT -8
I didn’t see this post till now - I’m sorry for the late response.
My best advice is this: Remember that sometimes no contact is one day at a time…sometimes it’s one hour at a time….sometimes one minute at a time. Don’t think about how you’re going to get through a whole day; just get through the next hour. If that isn’t possible, just get through the next ten minutes. Repeat as often as needed.
I promise - it DOES get better.
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Post by anaddict on Sept 26, 2021 13:21:46 GMT -8
Thank you Rose for your support! It means a lot to me to get support here from people who know and understand! It really helps me in dealing with this addiction.
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Post by anaddict on Sept 29, 2021 1:12:24 GMT -8
I did not slip Thank God and thanks to this board and coming back to it every day and reading the stories and thanks to the support I get here !!
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