Post by Susy25 on Jan 22, 2011 14:10:49 GMT -8
I really don't know if this is the right place to put this in, but I am talking about my self worth (viewed by me) and walls I put up. I had a long talk with a friend last night and she told me that I have this wall that is up with me. I only let people in so far, I'm a people pleaser and so independent that I don't let anyone help me. All of this is true and she came at me very loving so I do not have any hard feelings toward her. My problem is I don't know why I have that wall up, why I can't let someone in, I realize I must be scared but of what? I let people in enough to hurt me, so do not think that is it. When it comes to being a people pleaser it's only with people that I have personal relationships with (family, friends, and romantic) My business relationships I have very professional and do not do that. How do you change being a people pleasing kind of person? It's so my in everything that I do that I don't know if I can really do a 180 from it.
